Discit

This is also why, when men come into our live who are interested in our well-being and in our happiness and fulfillment, and who present the genuine possibility of a healthy relationship, we usually are not interested. And make no mistake: these kinds of men do come into our lives. Each of my clients who has loved too much has been able to recall at least one, often several, men whom she has described wistfully as "reall nice...so kind...actually cared about me..." Then usually comes the ironic smile and the question, "Now why didn't I stick with him?... I guess he was too nice huh?"

A better answer would be that his actions and our reactions... didn't mesh into a perfect duet. Although being in his company migh be pleasant, soothing, interesting and affirming, it is difficult for us to regard this kind of relationship as important and worth developing on a more serious level. Instead, such a man has usually been either quickly dropped or ignored, or at best regulated to the "just a friend" category, because he failed to arouse in use the heart pounding and stomach knotting we have come to call love..... what should feel good has come to feel foreign, suspect and uncomfortable. We have learned, by long and close association, to prefer the pain. A more healthy, loving man cannot play an important part in our life until we learn to let go of the need to relive the old struggle again and

Discit

This is also why, when men come into our live who are interested in our well-being and in our happiness and fulfillment, and who present the genuine possibility of a healthy relationship, we usually are not interested. And make no mistake: these kinds of men do come into our lives. Each of my clients who has loved too much has been able to recall at least one, often several, men whom she has described wistfully as "reall nice...so kind...actually cared about me..." Then usually comes the ironic smile and the question, "Now why didn't I stick with him?... I guess he was too nice huh?"

A better answer would be that his actions and our reactions... didn't mesh into a perfect duet. Although being in his company migh be pleasant, soothing, interesting and affirming, it is difficult for us to regard this kind of relationship as important and worth developing on a more serious level. Instead, such a man has usually been either quickly dropped or ignored, or at best regulated to the "just a friend" category, because he failed to arouse in use the heart pounding and stomach knotting we have come to call love..... what should feel good has come to feel foreign, suspect and uncomfortable. We have learned, by long and close association, to prefer the pain. A more healthy, loving man cannot play an important part in our life until we learn to let go of the need to relive the old struggle again and

anonymous versus nazi...s

the world will end

Thousands of US troops land in Israel. Aircraft carrier coming soon (DEBKAfile) Exclusive Report 01/06/12 6:41 PM (GMT+02:00)
Thousands of US troops began descending on Israel this week. Senior US military sources told DEBKAfile Friday, Jan. 6 that many would be staying up to the end of the year as part of the US-IDF deployment in readiness for a military engagement with Iran and its possible escalation into a regional conflict. They will be joined by a US aircraft carrier. The warplanes on its decks will fly missions with Israeli Air Force jets. The 9,000 US servicemen gathering in Israel in the coming weeks are mostly airmen, missile interceptor teams, marines, seamen, technicians and intelligence officers.
The incoming American soldiers are officially categorized as participants in Austere Challenge 12, the biggest joint US-Israeli war game ever held.